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Dr. Ramani: How to Know If You're Being Gaslit

Guest: Dr. Ramani Durvasula • 2024-11-18 • 5.4M views

Clinical psychologist, narcissism expert

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📝 Episode Summary

Dr. Ramani explains the toxic nature of narcissistic abuse.

🎯 Top Takeaways

  1. Success leaves clues: study those who've achieved what you want
  2. Consistency beats intensity: small actions daily outperform occasional heroics
  3. Fear of failure prevents more success than actual failure ever does
  4. Your environment shapes your trajectory: design your surroundings for success
  5. Focus is a superpower: in a distracted world, concentration wins

💬 Key Quotes

"Narcissists don't love. They collect. You're not their partner, you're their supply."

— Dr. Ramani Durvasula (00:42:18)

🎬 Must-Watch Moments

How To Spot A Narcissist Immediately

The red flags everyone misses

00:41:00 - 00:43:30

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