Esther Perel: Why Modern Love Is So Complicated!
Psychotherapist, author of Mating in Captivity
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Esther explores why we cheat and how relationships can survive.
🎯 Top Takeaways
- Fire needs air: desire requires space and separateness; constant closeness kills passion
- Erotic desire doesn't emerge from responsibility and caretaking�it emerges from novelty and play
- Committed relationships require ongoing choice�love is a verb, not just a feeling
- In long-term relationships, we often sacrifice desire for security�both are possible with intention
- We ask one partner to give us what an entire village used to provide�that's an impossible task
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